Remember the days when Men were Men, & Women were Women?
Are you searching to gain something mysterious you have lost?
Are you irresistibly attracted to people who possess traits you don’t like? 
Are you a tomato, a cucumber, or both?
Is there a strong Inner Matriarch or Inner Patriarch at play here?
strong firm cucumbers
Remember the days when men were men and women were women? Everyone had their designated role, and life ran smoothly, they complemented each other – so to speak, until one or the other decided one day, that what their job description was, just wasn’t enough anymore. They weren’t happy anymore with their specialised, unique positions.
juicy red ripe tomatoes
Imagine now two plants growing side by side in the garden, a tomato plant and a cucumber plant.
One sunny morning ms. tomato plant says to the mr. cucumber plant “It’s not enough for me anymore to just produce tomatoes, I would like to produce some cucumbers as well.”
Cucumbers’ response – “What? I have been producing cucumbers all my life, my parents and grandparents and great grandparents produced only cucumbers, now you, who has only produced tomatoes think you can do a better job at producing cucumbers than I, the cucumber expert?”
tomato - “to be fair then, you can produce some tomatoes”
cucumber – “but I like what I do, I don’t want to do your job”
tomato – “well if I’m going to take on some of your responsibilities, then you should take on some of mine also”
cucumber - “does this mean that you won’t need me anymore, now that you will be producing both tomatoes and cucumbers?”
God created man and woman with different bodies, different thought processes to complement each other. If we were meant to be alone, and do everything ourselves, he would have created us with both male and female characteristics. Wouldn’t he now.
lost identity
Has anyone noticed that since the job description of man and woman was put into a big wheelbarrow and turned and mixed, that we have forgotten what we were put on this earth to do. Were there this many relationship breakdowns in our grandparents and great grandparents time? I think not. They knew that tomato plants produced tomatoes, and cucumber plants produced only cucumbers. Their future generations unfortunately, thought they knew better, and look at the results.
If you read ‘Tiger & Tigress’ you will notice how strong the Inner Patriarch is at times, and ‘Tomato & Cucumber’ is a reflection of the Belief System of the Inner Patriarch.
